SPI 522 Introduction to Spiritual Companionship for the Grieving
Faculty: Janice L. Lundy, D.Min. (Profile)
ABOUT THE COURSE
The approach to grief presented in this course is one of companioning, rather than counseling. As grief companions, we learn to walk alongside a griever during all phases of their grief journey into active mourning, no matter whether the loss is recent or from long ago. Grief companions do not diagnose, analyze, interpret, or offer advice. Instead, we observe, bear witness, and honor each person’s unique journey. We offer deep listening and compassionate presence by holding space for someone as their story of grief is unpacked and affirmed. Companions assist grievers in recognizing their physical, cognitive, emotional, social and spiritual needs so healing can take place. Companions encourage life choices that enable a griever to be transformed by their journey through grief. With ongoing support and care, even the most complicated griefs can be lessened by active mourning and integrated into the very depth of one’s being. Doing so enables an individual to rebuild their life in meaningful ways after loss.
This course offers a whole person approach (spiritual rather than clinical) to grief companionship. Through it, you will engage in Dr. Lundy’s “Three-Strand Approach to Grief Companionship.” This entails:
- Comprehensive grief education (utilizing a contemporary, non-stage model based on griever’s needs).
- Self-reflective learning. You will be asked to apply the grief companioning principles and practices you are learning to one of your personal losses of a loved one. A small amount of guided journaling is required for this course and will be brought forth in your weekly papers. We cannot effectively offer grief companionship to others if we have not worked through our personal losses appropriately.
- Companioning skills. You will learn how to begin to companion others as they open to grief; to recognize and honor their grief so active mourning and reconciliation can take place; thereby creating hope while taking significant steps toward integrating their loss into a life of meaning and purpose.
Note: This companioning approach can be used by anyone: a professional or volunteer, a religious or lay person; by any caring person who desires to offer compassionate presence and support to another who is suffering. The model presented in this course is appropriate for any person of any religious, spiritual, or ethical persuasion.
(Non-Denominational/Interfaith/Interspiritual)